The most common misconceptions about who can foster

Tuesday 24 February 2026
Last updated: Thursday 19 February 2026

Fostering is deeply rewarding and can change a child’s life forever, yet so many people rule themselves out because of preconceived notions of what a Foster Carer looks like and who is allowed to foster. It is clear that these preconceived notions stem from a simple lack of knowledge and understanding that age, gender, and sexuality are not barriers to becoming a Foster Carer.

We understand how daunting becoming a Foster Carer can be, and you may be questioning whether you will be a good carer. There is no such thing as a “typical Foster Carer” because each child is unique, which is why we need people from all walks of life. We’ve unpacked some of those misconceptions, and as you take those first steps, we’ll be here to gently guide you through your fostering journey so you can feel confident in your choice in becoming a Foster Carer.

Can I be a Foster Carer if I am not a parent:

While parenting experience is helpful, at Five Rivers we value transferable skills such as patience, compassion, and the ability to provide a safe and loving home to a child. Any previous experience caring for children, be it teaching, childcare, caring for nieces or nephews is helpful. If you have the skills needed to care for a young person, we will happily support you along the way. We work closely with our Foster Carers to equip them with the skills needed to support a child’s growth and wellbeing.

Can I be a Foster Carer if I am LGBT+:

At Five Rivers we believe your personal qualities are what make you a great Foster Carer, regardless of how you identify. If you are a caring person who can provide a safe and loving home to a child, you’re welcome here. We will support you every step of the way so you can make a lasting difference to a child’s life.

Can I be a Foster Carer if I am single:

There is a common misconception that a Foster Carer must be married or in a serious relationship, but this isn’t a prerequisite. What is important to us is your ability to care for a child and your willingness to open your home and your heart to help a child feel safe.

Can I foster if I’m in my 20’s:

You would be surprised to learn you can foster a child if you are over 21 years old. Although many people picture Foster Carers as older adults with grown children, more young people in their 20s are stepping up to provide safe and loving homes for children in need.

The difference you can make as a young Foster Carer is immeasurable, not only for the children you welcome into your home, but for your own personal growth and professional development.

Can I foster if I work full time:

Although fostering must be your primary focus and requires your flexibility, it does not have to disrupt your life. It does depend on the type of fostering you choose to do and your current work commitments, but we work with you to find a type of fostering that suits your life. Regardless of your choice, you will be expected to meet your child’s needs by taking part in training, support groups, and key meetings. Our team is dedicated to working with you and will support you throughout your fostering journey.

Can I be a Foster Carer if I am disabled:

Having a disability does not prevent you from being a Foster Carer. During the application process to become a Foster Carer all our candidates go through a health assessment to ensure they are physically and psychologically fit enough to care for children and young people and meet their needs. We will work with you to ensure you have the right support you need to offer a child a safe, nurturing home.

Fostering a child can be a life-changing experience, but it is important to be fully prepared. Our Foster Carer eligibility quiz will help you understand the basic requirements and responsibilities involved in fostering. Answer the questions to find out if fostering is right for you.

Five Rivers is proud to have a wonderfully diverse community of Foster Carers. Foster Carers provide a safe space for the most vulnerable children, opening their hearts and homes to help them heal from unimaginable hardships and traumas. They give children a second chance, the chance to rebuild, to grow, and to rediscover the simple joys of childhood. We believe that everyone could have the potential to be an amazing Foster Carer, and every vulnerable child or young person deserves the chance to find the Foster Carer right for them.

Give us a Call to Find Out More

Take the first step to transforming a child or young person’s life today and register your interest with our carer enquiries team to join the Five Rivers community.